practical-advice

”How are you dealing with your anger?” This is the number one question people have asked me over the fourteen years since my son, Christopher, was murdered. Friends, family, other victims and inmates, have all wondered about this.

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The first of everything is the worst when you are deep in grief; the first hour, the first day, the first week, the first month and the first year.  Christopher was killed on a Thursday morning (March 21, 1996) and … Continue reading →

No one practices for grieving and trauma. People do not know what to say or do in many cases. When I am asked, “What do I say?” I tell people,” Say hello”; the words will come. Continue reading →